问题出现在JMX端口，女巫是IDEA默认设置为1099，但是在我的CATALINA_OPTS这个端口设置为8090，这就是为什么tomcat启动但无法从IDEA部署战争

Problem was in JMX port, witch was default setting by IDEA to 1099, but in my CATALINA_OPTS this port was set to 8090, thats why tomcat starts up but can't deploy war from IDEA