使用 XQuery:

declare @xml xml =
'<email>
  <account language="en" />
</email>'

select @xml.value('(/email/account/@language)[1]', 'nvarchar(max)')

declare @t table (m xml)

insert @t values 
    ('<email><account language="en" /></email>'), 
    ('<email><account language="fr" /></email>')

select m.value('(/email/account/@language)[1]', 'nvarchar(max)')
from @t

输出:

en
fr